Recently at a JUST FOR SINGLES seminar, the following commonsense ways to save a relationship from a break up was shared with single men and women in attendance. For those of you who were not opportune to attend, we will highlight here some of the commonsense ways to save any relationship from a break up before and after marriage.
BE PROUD OF YOUR LOOKS
Single men and women seeking to keep a long term relationship that will eventually lead to marriage should be proud of their looks. Never consider your size as an obstacle to finding the wife or husband of your dream. Whether fat, slim, short, tall, dark or white, there is someone out there, who God has made just for you. He or she will appreciate and love you dearly o matter your look. However, if you meet your desired partner, maintain your shape and size to suit the type of person your partner saw the first time. You must use your commonsense here to save your relationship from a break up. If you were skinny when you met your partner, maintain your shape. Maybe that was the singular reason your partner was attracted to you in the first place.
LOOK FOR A COMPATIBLE PARTNER
Apply wisdom while in relationships with the opposite sex. You should be wise in choice making thoroughly observing to know if you are compatible with the man or woman you are in relationship with. Most married people today are sad and regret the choice of spouse they made because they just jumped into the marriage without knowing their partners well enough.
DO NOT REVEAL EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU
Another important commonsense way to save your relationship from a break up is this. Read this and understand it well. Be wise not to reveal all information about you in one day immediately you start a relationship with a potential life partner. It is wrong presentation of you in relationship. Personal information about each other should be known gradually as the relationship grows. Do not reveal to the new person you are dating fundamental family secrets, like curses, hereditary problems or a sickness until the relationship has fully grown.
STUDY YOUR PARTNER'S CHARACTER
In other to save your relationship from a break up, you must fully study your partner before being carried away or infatuated and announcing to the whole world that your partner is the best person for you. You should not introduce somebody you just met to friends and family members as your future wife or husband until you have fully studied his or her character to know the person actually wants to marry you or ready to be committed to a long term relationship.
AVOID RUMORS AND GOSSIPS IN RELATIONSHIPS
When you hear negative reports about the person you are dating, investigate and be sure before taking any actions. Some serious relationships have experienced sudden break ups because one of the partners was told the boyfriend is always seen with a girl without finding out about the girl is. Rumors and gossips are capable of causing relationship break ups. Do not be surprise to see a once loving partner suddenly behaving strangely because of a false negative report picked up from others.
AVOID ARGUMENTS
Another commonsense way to save your relationship from a break up is to avoid arguments. Be smart and avoid arguments with your partner. To the ladies reading this, know today that men do not like argumentative women. Desist from this habit. Shouting or arguing constantly with a man can break up the relationship you have built over the years. Do not use abusive words.
GIFTS
Do not receive gifts from a man or woman you do not love or intend to marry. "Nothing goes for nothing". If you keep receiving gifts from the person you do not love, you will pay the price on day. Do not place high monetary value on the gift from your partner. Show appreciation and love. Your partner can use gifts to know the type of person you are. The manner you give and receive gifts can be use to determine your character. This is another commonsense way to save your relationship from a break up. Most people do not know this.
BY HARRISON OMOTUENMHEN.
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